Posted 11/24/2009 8:13 am
It is past 2 here. It is foggy and humid outside. No sex tonight. I have been busy with my work and my wife shook her tits to show me she wanted me, but unfortunately I was online with an overseas client.
Posted 11/25/2009 6:43 am
It is almost 1 here. It is raining outside and rather warm at 41. I spent about one hour with my wife fucking her. I first went down on her until she came, then I fucked her. When I came she wanted more. To excite me she told me what she plans to do with her friend. She said next time they meet she plans to fuck her, to take control of her.
Posted 12/1/2009 6:46 pm
Is the fantasy survey still on? I have many fantasies. This is my favourite. I would love to watch my wife giving it to many guys, riding them one by one.
Posted 12/9/2009 8:46 pm
it's -10 out, wife's vagina is frozen like a corn cob. We made love anyways, and she didn't say a legible word the whole time except mumbling "brrrrrrrrrrrrr" and faintly saying "so cold, so cold" about 100 times. After my icy escapes I trie to talk to her and she ignored me. I offered to boil a pot of tea and pour it in her vag to thaw it out but alas, she denied me.
Antonia, can you tell me how to get my outlook e-mail into my phone while i'm away from my desk
Posted 12/12/2009 2:26 pm
A lot of the posts on this board relate to a man wanting to see his wife with another man (or men). I have written on this issue here and there, and would like to give more details.
Let’s be clear. Those men want to see their wives having sex and nothing but sex. Pure raw sex. Women should be aware of this. No emotions, no relationships allowed.
Why do some men like to see their wives with other men? The first category of men is proud of the sexual prowess of their wives. Normally those wives have a strong personality and do take control of sexual activity. They take both mental and physical control. So their men want to see them taking control of other men, “milking” their penises to the last drop and annihilating them. Having sex with them till they are incapable of more sex. Men are proud of such women and feel that they want to show off that they are married to such a woman.
The second category of men wants to pleasure their wives in letting them having sex with many men. They are aware that they alone are incapable of fully pleasuring their women, and they need the help of other men, many men. These men know perfectly that the woman is the stronger sex (sexually speaking) and is capable of so many orgasms while they (men) are normally incapable of having more than one orgasm at a time. The woman can have sex for hours while most men stop after their first orgasm which normally takes anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes (not counting foreplay).
The third category of men feel that all women are whores and whores are made to be had. These men may also feel that a whore has to be punished (sexually) and she requires vigorous, harsh and strong sex. The more men she can take the better ---i.e. that more of a whore she is.
It is difficult to say which category prevails, and sometimes a man may fit in more than one category. Literature and surveys on sex do not clearly tackle this issue, but accounts of men in many cases do put them in one category or another. From my readings and my practice, it would seem that the third category dominates. That is, may be most of these men consciously (but mainly subconsciously) view women (and their wives) as whores. Why do I say so. In most of the accounts from men and women, after such an encounter (when it is realised) or even when in fantasy form, the man calls his wife (or partner) whore, slut, bitch, when he is doing her.
One important question: Do men prefer to see their wives with ONE man only, or with many men. From the surveys on fantasies I have read, and from my own survey, the second option is more predominant. That is, men want to see their wives with many men, and not just one man. The reason is obvious and we have just to refer to the categories above, which presupposes that many men are involved. It is important here to stress that a man wants to see his woman just having sex, and nothing but sex, so this is fulfilled with the number of men she beds. If she has sex just with one man then there is a possibility that real emotions are involved and not just sex. So men do want to see their wives, taken by many men, gang-banged, taken by force, etc…
A man who loves to see his wife taken by other men, is impatiently waiting to join, or to take his turn. He would plunge on her and ravish her, taking her like a bull, a tiger, and like an animal. Once finished he would cede his place to another man, mentally fired up waiting for his turn to take her again. If it were a fantasy (that is de does not see her in reality but listens to her narrating a real even or a fantasy event), once he has orgasmed, he would attempt to continue taking her. His mental excitement may over-power his physical weakness and may be able to achieve another erection within a few minutes after he has orgasmed.
Most women report that after they have let their husbands see them with other men, or when simply narrating the events (or fantasy), the husband do them like never before. Most say it was the best performance ever by their husbands and the best sex they ever had.
Where does the woman stand in all this? Some women may welcome their husbands’ desires to have them have sex with other man. They may feel that they need the variety or that extra spice in their lives. It is a fact that being with two or more men is women’s favourite fantasy. So these women, can have sex with many men without guilt as their husbands want it. Yet a lot of women may feel confused and lost. It is normal for those women who cannot separate love from sex to feel confused. If there is love between the married couple then they ask themselves “how on earth does he want me to have sex with someone else.”
It is time to separate fantasy from reality. While in most surveys I have read and in my own survey, sharing a wife with other men is a favourite fantasy, not more than half of these actually have this fantasy realised. In some cases it is the other way around. An event happens whereby the husband saw his wife having sex with another man (or men), and it develops into a fantasy.
When a husband accidentally sees his wife having sex with another man, and if the sight excites him, he is gripped by “sexual rage.” It is anger at first, but anger very soon accompanied by absolute excitement. The result is very rough sex, sex to punish the woman. Subconsciously most women do love rough sex, but here the husband may be too rough, too harsh and may cause her physical pain as he behaves like a maniac with the picture of that other man (or men) in his mind doing his wife.
It would be interesting to hear from both men and women who read this board, but particularly women, who have experienced being shared, to discuss her feelings about the issue, the problems encountered and also if the event made her husband a bull and increased her sexual satisfaction. It would be interesting also to mention, if clear, what category does the husband (or partner) fit in.
Posted 12/14/2009 4:15 pm
When my husband is making love to me, and he's very excited, he calls me all kinds of dirty names: whore, bitch, slut, sleeze. I am not sure why he does this, but when he is in such a mood our sex is fantastic.
Posted 12/20/2009 10:39 am
it's currently 21 degrees out, getting ready to fuck my wife. i asked her to not shave her pussy and she didn't, which is a good sign she respects my wishes. Anyway, going to try for anal tonight and bring up some current events, namely the health care debate in the US and how it would potentially affect wheat production in Kansas, rice production in Laos, and heriod trafficking in afganistan. I think this will help loosen her up (pun intended). I'm worried I might get shite on me twig, so I may be washing me junk after the sex.
Will report back soon Antonia, hoping you have insight as to shipping expectations for american inports and how they may affect my wife's inability to have an intellictual discussion during sex. I think if I ram her hard and without lube it will get her talking, or screaming.
If he does this all the time with you it means that you are antagonising him sexually (really exciting him). If he does it once in a while, something must have really excited him either you (your attire or your behaviour) or someone else (like a sexy woman, or some sexy scene).
Posted 12/21/2009 9:04 am
Antonia: I'm female and I have a vast array of fantasies. In some of my fantasies, I'm the female being fucked; and in some of my fantasies, I'm the male fucking the female
How normal is it for a woman to fantasize that she's both female and male in her sexual fantasies?
I am unable to login. Each time I login successfully, and I try to post, the system tells me that I am not logged in. That is why I stopped using this board.
So I am responding from an unregistered moniker:
Women who are aggressive in bed may often fantasies or even act as if they are the male and doing their partners. Also bisexuals may have this train of thought. When they are used to sleep with both women and men, they might often want to assume the man's role with a man.
