What she needs is someone like herself: her own age, probably divorced, successful enough at his work but busy like her, a bit of money to enjoy things but not rich, perhaps a bit overweight and out of shape himself. She is looking for companionship not some fool who wants f'n'c sex like YOU.
If you still think man-woman is about SEX SEX SEX in the 40s and beyond, you are immature AND stupid.
Posted 2/10/2012 6:53 pm
They are a scam to take her money knowing full well she won't be desired by the kind of men she wants. And she's dumb to fall for it.
Posted 2/10/2012 8:23 pm
The only way a MILF (or GILF) can keep a man (especially for a cougar to keep a boy toy) is to demand sex every day (e.g. oral, vaginal, or anal).
Most guys can at best handle vaginal or anal sex every other day (unless they have high testosterone or take Viagra). So most guys will resort to oral the "off day" to satisfy the demands of the MILF.
For example, Demi Moore's ex-husband "boy toy" cheated on her because he wasn't sexually exhausted by her daily demands for sex.
My wife has 2 degrees, and before we married was a lawyer.
She gave up work to have kids, with the intention of not going back, ever. Almost 10 years later, she regrets that decision.
Of course it's too late now. She's 40, has been out of her career for almost a decade, and has no hope of getting a job at all, let alone the kind of high flying superwoman job she thinks she should get (and probably would have if she had not stopped working).
You are confusing two things:
A) Admirable social and professional achievement, and
B) Sexua/romantic attractiveness to men.
These are not the same thing at all. This shouldn't be so hard to understand but women resist this truth fiercely. Which is stupid. In order to do anything effectively you need accurate information. Denial of this type makes it impossible to effectively operate in reality because the information you are basing important choices on is faulty and erroneous.
Her social and professional achievements may indeed earn her the sincere respect of men. However, this has absolutely no bearing whatsoever on her sexual attractiveness to men.
Exactly. If you want an attractive partner, the way to do it is BE ATTRACTIVE TO THE OPPOSITE SEX. Some women think the way to do it is be demanding ("I want it all", "I refuse to settle", etc), or to constantly blame men for being shallow, or to pay thousands of dollars to dating services.
None of those tactics work, because they don't make you any more attractive. What would work for this woman is losing some weight, getting rid of that Snuggie she's wearing and buying some sexier outfits, and taking a look at her own personality - why did she CHOOSE to devote all her energy to being an aggressive businesswoman, and what are the consequences of that lifestyle choice? Why have so many men decided she's not marriage material, that she's down to having to pay a shady dating agency just to find one willing to meet her? At some point you have to stop blaming everyone else, and consider the problem might be you.
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Ms Fontaine says: 'Poor Terry. He was such a nice guy, a really decent bloke, but it was a total mismatch.'
'He kept going on about his boating holiday on the Thames. I prefer St Tropez. As we walked down the King's Road, me with my designer handbag and Terry with his rucksack, I just thought, "So much for the neuro linguistic programming."'
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As we walked down the King's Road, me with my designer handbag and Terry with his rucksack, I just thought, "So much for the neuro linguistic programming."'
AND LATER, AS I CREPT UP BEHIND YOU IN A SHADY ISOLATED ALLEY, YOU WITH YOUR DESIGNER HANDBAG AND ME WITH MY RUCKSACK FULL OF DUCT TAPE AND ROPE, I JUST THOUGHT, "SO MUCH FOR THE TITANIUM OCTOPUS EYE." I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE FUCK THAT MEANT, BUT IF YOU WANNA GO FULL DUCK YOU JUST GOT TO LEARN TO MAKE ROOM FOR SHIT LIKE THAT IN YOUR LIFE.
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She's batshit crazy. No wonder she can't find a man.
At 32, after years suffering depression , unresolved trauma and undiagnosed Bipolar Disorder....
I visualised and described that I felt my heart was like an Edam cheese, yellow inside and encased in a thick yellow wax which stopped love and happiness entering and leaving my heart. Gradually through the treatment I felt the red wax melt away and I was left with a yellow heart.
I took myself on a trekking "holiday" in Morrocco which turned out to be a route march in the snow without the expensive and needed equipment. I wrote to everyone I knew asking to sponsor me to set up a charity to help others suffering from mental health issues.
She's batshit crazy. No wonder she can't find a man.
[i]At 32, after years suffering depression , unresolved trauma and undiagnosed Bipolar Disorder....
I visualised and described that I felt my heart was like an Edam cheese, yellow inside and encased in a thick yellow wax which stopped love and happiness entering and leaving my heart. Gradually through the treatment I felt the red wax melt away and I was left with a yellow heart.