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Honestly this doesn't sound horrible if she's otherwise great. Many men out there would be happy to have sex 2x/month instead of 0x/month.

Will she at least give you courtesy handjobs a couple days a week to make up for the lack of oral/intercourse? Now THAT would be the sign of a truly great wife.

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Might be a troll, but I'm in exact same situation as OP. Married 10 years. I don't get laid anymore.

We never had that much sex; it was always because she was tired, or out of shape, or had a headache. I was beta, bought into those excuses for a long time. About a year ago I started messing around online with some insanely horny and unsatisfied women. At first, I was totally beta with them, and a few of those women I met are friends (kind of like with my wife). During the last six months I have slowly started to become much more aggressive. It's been hard because it is not part of my nature, but I'm learning what works and what doesn't, and making the things that work part of my comfort zone. What I've discovered is that the sex is hottest with women that I am more direct and controlling with. I tell them what I want, when I want it and what they're going to do for me. Strangely, they almost universally respond to that approach.

Unfortunately all of this has served as confirmation that my marriage is over. The few times I've tried to get it on with my wife I've just quit disgusted. I might as well be having sex with a blowup doll. A few months ago I told her it was over. We're basically living as roommates while the idea of divorce sinks in. I won't call the whole marriage a mistake, but I'm glad I at least figured this out.

This is just my opinion, but two things are at play. One, you can't go from beta to alpha with the same woman. Two, some women do have very low sex drives, and you should try and figure that out as early as possible. In some cases, the preview doesn't match the movie....but if you pay attention you should be able to tell if she's really into sex or simply doing it as a chore.

So your wife hasn't offered to be more adventurous in the sack at all, even after confronting her? Then she refuses to change and it is really her lack of effort and interest that will doom her to cat herder status for the rest of her life.

Some women truly are worthless and don't deserve men.

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She basically told me she was perfectly happy not having sex and wasn't willing to do anything about her low drive. I'd go alpha on her ass and just take it, if I thought this was a problem of respect or she secretly needed it to get off. She just doesn't care about it and figures it's a chore that is no longer important.

What's amusing is that I didn't connect all the dots until I had a long conversation with her mom (who's basically a single spinster) a while back. This woman sees sex as a chore and doesn't date because she doesn't want to have to put out. I saw my wife in her, at that moment.

Last thing is...when I was much younger and Ann Landers was a columnist still, I remember a specific question from a man who said that his wife told him their days of sex were over. I can't remember what advice she gave, but I specifically remember feeling disbelief about the man's situation.

I'm just glad I figured this out while my cock still works. LOL.

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She basically told me she was perfectly happy not having sex and wasn't willing to do anything about her low drive. I'd go alpha on her ass and just take it, if I thought this was a problem of respect or she secretly needed it to get off. She just doesn't care about it and figures it's a chore that is no longer important.

What's amusing is that I didn't connect all the dots until I had a long conversation with her mom (who's basically a single spinster) a while back. This woman sees sex as a chore and doesn't date because she doesn't want to have to put out. I saw my wife in her, at that moment.

Last thing is...when I was much younger and Ann Landers was a columnist still, I remember a specific question from a man who said that his wife told him their days of sex were over. I can't remember what advice she gave, but I specifically remember feeling disbelief about the man's situation.

I'm just glad I figured this out while my cock still works. LOL.

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Might be a troll, but I'm in exact same situation as OP. Married 10 years. I don't get laid anymore.

We never had that much sex; it was always because she was tired, or out of shape, or had a headache. I was beta, bought into those excuses for a long time. About a year ago I started messing around online with some insanely horny and unsatisfied women. At first, I was totally beta with them, and a few of those women I met are friends (kind of like with my wife). During the last six months I have slowly started to become much more aggressive. It's been hard because it is not part of my nature, but I'm learning what works and what doesn't, and making the things that work part of my comfort zone. What I've discovered is that the sex is hottest with women that I am more direct and controlling with. I tell them what I want, when I want it and what they're going to do for me. Strangely, they almost universally respond to that approach.

Unfortunately all of this has served as confirmation that my marriage is over. The few times I've tried to get it on with my wife I've just quit disgusted. I might as well be having sex with a blowup doll. A few months ago I told her it was over. We're basically living as roommates while the idea of divorce sinks in. I won't call the whole marriage a mistake, but I'm glad I at least figured this out.

This is just my opinion, but two things are at play. One, you can't go from beta to alpha with the same woman. Two, some women do have very low sex drives, and you should try and figure that out as early as possible. In some cases, the preview doesn't match the movie....but if you pay attention you should be able to tell if she's really into sex or simply doing it as a chore.

So your wife hasn't offered to be more adventurous in the sack at all, even after confronting her? Then she refuses to change and it is really her lack of effort and interest that will doom her to cat herder status for the rest of her life.

Some women truly are worthless and don't deserve men.

She basically told me she was perfectly happy not having sex and wasn't willing to do anything about her low drive. I'd go alpha on her ass and just take it, if I thought this was a problem of respect or she secretly needed it to get off. She just doesn't care about it and figures it's a chore that is no longer important.

What's amusing is that I didn't connect all the dots until I had a long conversation with her mom (who's basically a single spinster) a while back. This woman sees sex as a chore and doesn't date because she doesn't want to have to put out. I saw my wife in her, at that moment.

Last thing is...when I was much younger and Ann Landers was a columnist still, I remember a specific question from a man who said that his wife told him their days of sex were over. I can't remember what advice she gave, but I specifically remember feeling disbelief about the man's situation.

I'm just glad I figured this out while my cock still works. LOL.

And there WILL come a time when it won't work -- that is, you'll loose all desire for it, and then you'll really hate your wife for cheating you out of all those years when you could have had it. Go ahead, ask me how I know...

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And there WILL come a time when it won't work -- that is, you'll loose all desire for it, and then you'll really hate your wife for cheating you out of all those years when you could have had it. Go ahead, ask me how I know...

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You should be grateful that she even wllows you to enter her from time to time.

All sex is rape

A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle

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You should be grateful that she even wllows you to enter her from time to time.

All sex is rape

A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle

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So says the rotten, crusty vagged bulldyke.

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Women don't need men. You clearly need us more than we need you.

Bunch of fucking losers who just think with their dick. They will never learn to bew real modern man. Just a Neanderthal hormonally driven.

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Women don't need men. You clearly need us more than we need you.

Bunch of fucking losers who just think with their dick. They will never learn to bew real modern man. Just a Neanderthal hormonally driven.

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Make sure to tell your therapist about your fear issues. If you start with that you could save yourself some time & money.

You're welcome.

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Look at all the anger my post evoked. It's quite simple. The premise of this here thread is proof that you need us. And e OP's wife is proof we don't need you.

OK, great. We'll all just take your word for it that sex and sexuality and sexual relationships and drive are all a thing of the past, and for the "lower mental forms" on the planet.

Just because YOU have a problem does not mean that every other woman on the planet does.

Just sayin.

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Look at all the anger my post evoked. It's quite simple. The premise of this here thread is proof that you need us. And e OP's wife is proof we don't need you.

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OK, great. We'll all just take your word for it that sex and sexuality and sexual relationships and drive are all a thing of the past, and for the "lower mental forms" on the planet.

Just because YOU have a problem does not mean that every other woman on the planet does.

Just sayin.

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No way my wife is fucking someone else. I know that for a fact. She just has a very low sex drive.

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Women don't need men. You clearly need us more than we need you.

Bunch of fucking losers who just think with their dick. They will never learn to bew real modern man. Just a Neanderthal hormonally driven.

When are you going to give up this troll?

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When are you going to give up this troll?

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So I should start being a dick to her until I get regular sex? Or just get a mistress? Honestly, I can't deal with the constant lying and sneaking and
guilt that come with a mistress. How if this mistress finds out about my real life and tries to fuck things up? Don't really want to go there.

I guess I have to have terrible unconnected sex with hookers.
Or find NSA sex somehow with milfs on the web. Know any good hookup sites?