Katalyst
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Posted 2/9/2010 9:34 am
Shiny New Kid said: How would he stop her?
What do you mean how would he stop her.
He'd say, "Hey, why am I earning 100K while you sit on your ass, save your own paycheques and spend mine?".
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 9:34 am
Shiny New Kid said: How would he stop her?
Katalyst is dealing from the perspective of somebody who is married but has no communal property or kids, and sure it would be easy to walk away in that situation.
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Katalyst
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Posted 2/9/2010 9:35 am
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Katalyst is so full of shit; Canada's divorce rate is the same as the US.
If Canadas divorce rate is half of Americas
.. so if you don't know why are you saying I'm full of shit?
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Posted 2/9/2010 9:36 am
Katalyst said: What do you mean how would he stop her.
He'd say, "Hey, why am I earning 100K while you sit on your ass, save your own paycheques and spend mine?".
Income is communal property in a normal marriage. Its his money that shes spending either way.
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Katalyst
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Posted 2/9/2010 9:39 am
KM.as.a.dot said: Income is communal property in a normal marriage. Its his money that shes spending either way.
That doesn't answer my question.
Was he expecting something different from her before they married? Was her sitting around doing nothing but spend his money a shock to him?
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Posted 2/9/2010 9:43 am
Katalyst said: That doesn't answer my question.
Was he expecting something different from her before they married? Was her sitting around doing nothing but spend his money a shock to him?
They had a house together and kids to raise. In that situation normal people dont think of their incomes as "hers" and "mine", but "ours". If you and your wife keep seperate accounts it only re-emphasizes that you are only married in the loosest sense.
No man goes into marriage expecting to get divorced, hence they dont usually track whats "yours" and "mine". Its only when the lawyers start getting involved that those distinctions become important.
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Posted 2/9/2010 9:51 am
KM.as.a.dot said: They had a house together and kids to raise. In that situation normal people dont think of their incomes as "hers" and "mine", but "ours". If you and your wife keep seperate accounts it only re-emphasizes that you are only married in the loosest sense.
No man goes into marriage expecting to get divorced, hence they dont usually track whats "yours" and "mine". Its only when the lawyers start getting involved that those distinctions become important.
Correct. They had separate bank accounts of course as their paychecks were paid into them. He initially assumed she was also paying bills but only looking back later did he realise she hardly ever was.
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Katalyst
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Posted 2/9/2010 9:55 am
So he had separate bank accounts and my wife and I don't.
What's the theory about those again?
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Posted 2/9/2010 10:01 am
Katalyst said: So he had separate bank accounts and my wife and I don't.
What's the theory about those again?
Fuck off back to CI, asswipe.
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Posted 2/9/2010 10:07 am
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Real intelligent response, there.
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 10:11 am
Katalyst said: Real intelligent response, there.
That's the only response you deserve, dullard.
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 10:11 am
Katalyst said: Real intelligent response, there.
Given your personality it's the sole intelligent reply possible.
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 10:14 am
And it's already been proven that Katabitch is not married has never been married and never will be married. He's some hopeless schizophrenic loser on a government psychatric pension who stays up all night collecting huge amounts of data on all regged posters and playing fantasy games made for people half his age.
No, that can't be true, I personally find he's said some truly insightful things here about the parlous state of marriage in these troubled times.
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Posted 2/9/2010 10:15 am
. said: Katalyst is so full of shit; Canada's divorce rate is the same as the US.
Why do you people even bother talking to this st@lker/troll that has to pretend to be married.
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Posted 2/9/2010 10:16 am
. said: And it's already been proven that Katabitch is not married has never been married and never will be married. He's some hopeless schizophrenic loser on a government psychatric pension who stays up all night collecting huge amounts of data on all regged posters and playing fantasy games made for people half his age.
No, that can't be true, I personally find he's said some truly insightful things here about the parlous state of marriage in these troubled times.
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The big New Years thread says it all.
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Katalyst
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Posted 2/9/2010 10:17 am
Now that it appears that all the intelligent posters have left the thread, I'm going to bed.
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Posted 2/9/2010 10:19 am
Katalyst said: Now that it appears that all the intelligent posters have left the thread, I'm going to bed.
yeah, at 5:18 AM toronto time? You'll be up bright and early for your high paying high status job for sure. Make Miyu proud there.
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 10:23 am
<----Katabitch caught by his short hairs. Our resident expert in all things relating to connubial bliss.
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 10:32 am
Why did katabitch get it's moniker back? Obviously nobody wants it here.
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 10:34 am
. said: Why did katabitch get it's moniker back? Obviously nobody wants it here.
Worse yet; the shit is a mod here who was almost certainly involved in the banning of links to Judicial Inc and the deletion of many posts...
If you think this is a freedom of speech board think again. The poison that killed CI is spreading here thanks to you know who.
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Posted 2/9/2010 10:38 am
. said: Worse yet; the shit is a mod here who was almost certainly involved in the banning of links to Judicial Inc and the deletion of many posts...
If you think this is a freedom of speech board think again. The poison that killed CI is spreading here thanks to you know who.
Yeah, it's like trying to get rid of AIDS.
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 10:40 am
. said: Yeah, it's like trying to get rid of AIDS.
I just don't get why this brainless worm always ends up being given mod priveleges wherever he goes...FC, CI and now here...
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Anonymous Pinky
Posted 2/9/2010 10:46 am
. said: I just don't get why this brainless worm always ends up being given mod priveleges wherever he goes...FC, CI and now here...
*on the internet 15 hrs a day
*acts benign until he gets the priveleges
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Posted 2/9/2010 10:54 am
. said: Worse yet; the shit is a mod here who was almost certainly involved in the banning of links to Judicial Inc and the deletion of many posts...
If you think this is a freedom of speech board think again. The poison that killed CI is spreading here thanks to you know who.
There's no evidence of him being a mod here.
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