Concurred with cradle the balls. Don't overdo it, but gently touch the balls, then move your hand away, then touch them again. And from time to time, when you're working the head, put your hand around the base of the shaft, and move the hand up and down.
Posted 9/5/2009 4:04 am
Ballplay is a must. Also, make your hand an extension of your mouth such that the cock runs between you tight fist before it gets to the mouth. This does two things. You can make your grip incredibly tight, which feels amazing, and you won't have to swallow so much cock, which could make you gag. Lost of spit. If you really want to blow his mind, let him fuck you doggy, and right before he's about to pop, flip around and suck his cock to completion. But be warned: he may propose to you shortly there after, so if its nothing serious and you want to keep things light, do not do this.
Posted 9/5/2009 4:17 am
Do not stop until he either pulls away or goes limp. Far to many girls simply stop the second the first string is shot. Even if there isn't any cum spouting from the cock, we're still orgasming. When you stop, you interupt that. Never stop until he tells you to.
Almost as bad as using teeth. Would you like it if we pulled out mid-orgasm? Same thing.
And don't like the cock. Some chicks will suck for a while, then stop and lick it while looking at you. That's just annoying. Penises need to be handled in a jerking motion - licking them accomplishes nothing. Its not sexy to us. Get on it and keep your head bobbing until we pop.
Posted 9/5/2009 4:43 am
Don't try to overdo it...most women try to hard...you wouldn't want us biting and just tugging on your nipples and the cock is no different.
Learn to worship and respect the cock. I'm serious...treat it like your prized possession and with most gentle care..nothing is worse than jerking, bobbing, or doing ANYTHING too fast.
Random is the key..licking, full mouth sucking, teasing the head, slowly licking the shaft. Make us your slave using your mouth!
Most importantly, like giving Women head, every man is different. Just learn what he likes by his facial expression, and if he tries to push your head down don't let him...tell him you are in control and to sit back and relax. Most men will acquiesce and let you do your magic.
Getting a BJ is a preclude to your wet, dripping pussy and a huge load of cum in your mouth/tummy...so make a BJ an aperitif to the main course and you'll have your man at WOW.
Well, heads up man...I'm not married but some day I will be..and I will tell her before heading to the alter that I will be faithful unless she cuts off sex, and that's a promise.
Seeing that you are ahead of me I can only say this....I read and understand that married Women just don't feel as sexy (especially those with children). It will take you more work to get the pre-marriage passion back. I suggest that you have a talk..and say "you know..back in the day we couldn't keep off of each other..now we let the everyday stresses of life get in the way of what brought us together.
She's still a Women and has emotions, so play off those. Find out what will make her relax and feel sexy again because that is why she's not so into blowjobs or sex.
Do you offer to eat her pussy...you should be down on it like a madman, then tell her to flip over and 69 with you.
Get her to start sucking and tell her you'll eat her as she continues sucking.
Every married man who complains about sex doesn't realize that his Women is still horny, it's just buried in daily bullshit and it's many times not her fault..she just doesn't realize it or priortize he man's needs over so many others (kids, bills, mortgage, work, shit)
Try it Bro and if it fails you can tell me I'm wrong..I'll admit it.